How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 05:54
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Making more friends is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Why do flat Earthers exist? Why can’t I see the Sun at night? Is it because Earth is not flat?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What is a common thought that keeps people up at night? Why do some people experience this?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Does turmeric help fight cancer? If so, how?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What is the best time for conception?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do you think cheating is that bad?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Procrastinates a lot.
What was your biggest culture shock going to Europe?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Has anyone tried bestiality and been caught?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why are people becoming increasingly hostile to pro-lifers? I am pro-life.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
That's it for today.
Will you share your wife? Can she take both of us at the same time?
What I need from you?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.